Comments on: ebeeleeves http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/ relax your mind, let your conscious be free Wed, 28 Jul 2010 23:48:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: NinaMM http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/comment-page-1/#comment-117759 NinaMM Tue, 14 Apr 2009 15:09:54 +0000 http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/#comment-117759 I don't think I'm at your extreme -- inasmuch as I'd love to be married to the right person, and I have encourage alot of different facets of said person in my thoughts and in my daydreams. I don't have a "He" in my mind -- but I do think on the seamless connect that we'll have. That we'll have to have...in order for me to marry. But be someone's girlfriend for 10 years? At this point in my life? Hell nawl. And that's just on some principled shit. Them days are done. I don’t think I’m at your extreme — inasmuch as I’d love to be married to the right person, and I have encourage alot of different facets of said person in my thoughts and in my daydreams. I don’t have a “He” in my mind — but I do think on the seamless connect that we’ll have. That we’ll have to have…in order for me to marry. But be someone’s girlfriend for 10 years? At this point in my life? Hell nawl. And that’s just on some principled shit. Them days are done.

]]> By: Reign http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/comment-page-1/#comment-117692 Reign Mon, 13 Apr 2009 14:39:20 +0000 http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/#comment-117692 in my mind a marriage, ie a wedding, is a sign of total committment... well it use to be. as long as i find someone who is head over heels for me, supportive, and all those things that make me happy and I him, then i'm straight. just give each other rings to let every one else know. hell common law is good enough for me and saves a hellava lot of money... weddings are ridiculous knowadays. in my mind a marriage, ie a wedding, is a sign of total committment… well it use to be. as long as i find someone who is head over heels for me, supportive, and all those things that make me happy and I him, then i’m straight. just give each other rings to let every one else know. hell common law is good enough for me and saves a hellava lot of money… weddings are ridiculous knowadays.

]]> By: Dilly http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/comment-page-1/#comment-117688 Dilly Mon, 13 Apr 2009 14:20:59 +0000 http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/#comment-117688 Marriage is a wonderful institition, but who likes to live in an institution!?!?! lol ok, i'm done Marriage is a wonderful institition, but who likes to live in an institution!?!?! lol

ok, i’m done

]]> By: Shi http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/comment-page-1/#comment-117644 Shi Sun, 12 Apr 2009 21:15:35 +0000 http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/#comment-117644 Really E? LOL... Who cares what people think. No need in answering the Y's. "B/c I want to" if nothing else that's my answer. So Y do I want to get married? "B/c I want to." LOL The reasons only matter to the parties involved not the outsiders. Now I don't understand the whoopla over the wedding day and I'm a woman. All for nothing and you spend the next 3yrs paying it off. smh... As long as we are with whom we love nothing else should matter. To marry or not really shouldn't be an issue. If you with someone who doesn't want it and it is something you want you have to make a decision. As long as needs are being met it will eventual get to that point where you wake up and decide to take the relationship to another level whatever that maybe. All IMO Peace! Really E?

LOL…

Who cares what people think. No need in answering the Y’s. “B/c I want to” if nothing else that’s my answer. So Y do I want to get married? “B/c I want to.” LOL

The reasons only matter to the parties involved not the outsiders.

Now I don’t understand the whoopla over the wedding day and I’m a woman. All for nothing and you spend the next 3yrs paying it off. smh…

As long as we are with whom we love nothing else should matter. To marry or not really shouldn’t be an issue. If you with someone who doesn’t want it and it is something you want you have to make a decision.

As long as needs are being met it will eventual get to that point where you wake up and decide to take the relationship to another level whatever that maybe.

All IMO

Peace!

]]> By: 12kyle http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/comment-page-1/#comment-117564 12kyle Sat, 11 Apr 2009 15:46:03 +0000 http://eclectik-relaxation.com/blog/2009/04/11/ebeeleeves/#comment-117564 This one has me rooooooollin, fam! I've been married for nearly 9 yrs. Marriage is a funny thing. You could ask 10 married couples about marriage and you'll get 10 different answers! LoL Marriage can be a beast! It aint for everybody. For as much as I love my ole lady, there are times when she gets on my last nerve and I have to get the hell away from her. But most of the times...there is a connection that we share...that I can't put into words. Guess dats why I signed on the dotted line...fo life! LoL!!! Marriage is what you make it. The only advice that I could give to you or any other brutha who aint married is...make sure that you are READY to be married. If you have to ask yourself if you're ready...then you aint ready! Lmao! This one has me rooooooollin, fam!

I’ve been married for nearly 9 yrs. Marriage is a funny thing. You could ask 10 married couples about marriage and you’ll get 10 different answers! LoL

Marriage can be a beast! It aint for everybody. For as much as I love my ole lady, there are times when she gets on my last nerve and I have to get the hell away from her. But most of the times…there is a connection that we share…that I can’t put into words.

Guess dats why I signed on the dotted line…fo life! LoL!!!

Marriage is what you make it. The only advice that I could give to you or any other brutha who aint married is…make sure that you are READY to be married. If you have to ask yourself if you’re ready…then you aint ready! Lmao!

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